Love. The only word that can bring us both happiness and sadness. Love is such a generic term and is very subjective. To some, love is just a game played between two people. To others, love means everything to them and they will do anything they can to hold on to it and protect it with all their heart and soul. How far would someone go for love? I'm sure you have heard of phrases like "climb the highest mountain", "swim the deepest ocean" or " go through hell and back" just to express their love. But in truth, have you ever seen or heard anyone going through the tribulations mentioned? As for me, not once have I heard of anyone doing the said things. I'm not saying that I disapprove of love, but don't you think they way people express their love is a tad too exaggerated? I mean, if they really meant it, there would be cases of people actually doing them.
There's something that's been bothering me for a while now. Why is the average age of couples getting together getting lower and lower? Like for instance, I once saw this primary school girl out with her "boyfriend". Isn't it a bit too young for them to be in relationships? They're not even matured enough to support themselves financially, so why the heck are they getting into relationships? For the thrill of it? To have a taste of being in a relationship? I think maybe that's why the rate of under-aged sex/teen pregnancy has risen over the past few years. It's like the sooner you get in a relationship, the sooner you'll most likely want to experience the "physical" aspect of the relationship. Oh yeah, not to mention all those so-called playboys and playgirls. Just what is up with that? Is it like a growing trend? I do have to admit that I was one of them but I realized early on that what I did was wrong and since then I have never done it anymore. But the point I'm trying to drive at is, why are you in a relationship with your so-called special someone if you weren't planning to marry him/her? I would be hearing things like "I'll be with you forever" or "You're the only one for me" but the next thing you'll hear is that they've already broken up cause of something stupid, probably.
So, if you're really think that you're in love, make sure she/he is the one you would bring home to show your parents and intend to marry. This reminds me of something. There are couples who hide their relationship from their friends cause they're afraid of being teased or something along that line. Now what's up with that? If you're in a relationship, why are you so scared of other people finding out about it? It's totally understandable if you're a celebrity but as a normal citizen, what the bleh? Some people just don't get it, like those young ones who are in relationships, as to the meaning of being in a relationship which is truly disappointing cause nowadays I see a lot of these youngsters getting into one. If you're not mature enough to handle one, then don't be in one. Simple as that.
Before I end this post, I'll leave you guys with a spot(Something to think about in case you guys don't know what I meant). What's the point of being in a relationship when you know that there's a high possibility for you to get your heart broken?
Tuesday, June 19, 2007
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